The life that we live

For some reason I have been watching only horror or thriller movies. I can get the occasional comedy in but I usually get bored with it fairly quickly. I definitely can’t tolerate romance or drama movies. They are to sappy and I don’t really feel like crying over some stupid movie. If I’m going to cry I better be hurt because there is no other excuse for me right now. I don’t know why the thrillers have been such a big hit with me right now. Maybe I need some more excitement in my life.. hmmm I don’t know being a parent of teens absolutely has it’s moments of excitement. I was so disappointed in the movie I wrote about yesterday. I need some real thrilling moments in a movie. I guess because I am in need of a good thriller I am extra critical of the ones I watch because when I read the reviews on the movie most of them were good. So do any of you have suggestions for a good thriller?

A man who has decided he is only going to be friends with you is not likely to change his mind. No amount of sweet little flirting, special dinners, or skimpy outfits are going to change his mind. If you have your heart set on some stud that you have been friends with but he has told you it can only be friends he means it. He isn’t playing games with you, he isn’t trying to tease you, he just doesn’t feel that way about you.

Men are serious when it comes to love, real love that is. If they don’t see things going any where with you and they tell you they are being completely honest and anything they may say or do that seems like a little message to the contrary is a misunderstanding by you. They may care for you a great deal, or even love you, but if they say friendship is as far as it will go I would bet that they mean it. Men aren’t wired like women. A woman can say she only wants to be friends but deep down wonder, “well maybe this could be more”. Men who see a woman as a friend only see her as a friend. If you are dolling up and putting on a fake smile when he is around just to get his attention you are waisting your time. If this is the man you have your hopes on you are bound to get your heart broken so turn and RUN away, don’t walk but run.

Now I won’t say that this is a guaranteed %100 sure thing but I would bet more often on what I just said than not. Don’t get me wrong if things start out as a relationship that is ended on a mutual agreement there may still be a chance that he wants more than friends. If things started out headed for a relationship and something happened that you could only be friends I believe there could be a chance. But if he starts out by telling you “we can be friends” he means it.

If your hopes are hung on a “just friends” guy I’m afraid to tell you it’s time to say good bye. If you can’t be just friends then move on because you will only get your heart broken if you don’t. I have had several guy friends over the years and I know this to be true. My best friend growing up confided in me that he had been saddened because he had lost good friends because they wanted more and he couldn’t make himself do something that he just didn’t feel right about. When men make up their mind it’s pretty hard to change it. When it comes to this I wouldn’t try it because you are going to loose.